Don't ever call a woman barren it's an insult, an affront. Nowadays, women choose to have a child or otherwise. Even if physiologically unable to conceive, they still choose to become a mother. Adoption gives them this option. There are some legal formalities to go through. But the thing of importance is a couple's ability to accept and love a child. A closed mind can never open a heart. When the mind accepts, the heart will love.
Indian women nowadays know it is for them to choose whether to be a mother or not. If biological makeup falls short, she still can adopt a child. It's idiotic to choose to stay childless when you have it in you to be a good mother. It's not fair to you, and it isn't fair to the child who needs a mother. Any emptiness you feel can now be filled with the joys of motherhood.
Many a couple have chosen to become a complete family by adopting a baby or two. And it really isn't very difficult. You just have to open your heart to a love that isn't governed by genetics. And a little one resides in your heart forever. Over the years, it matters little whether the baby is biologically yours or not. The truth is, it is REALLY yours. For you to have and to hold. Is a little genetic detail enough to deny yourself the delight of motherhood all through your life?
To the lonely and large at heart, somewhere there is a little one waiting, waiting eagerly to be wanted. You only have to reach out and it will trustingly put its little heart into your hands.
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